I have (as is usual) been consuming a lot of media recently. What is interesting is the amount of that media that works to heteronormalize gay relationships. I've been catching up on Modern Family (a show I have really grown to enjoy and am teetering on the brink of calling myself a fan) and well, the gay relationship between and Cam and Mitchell is not so modern. And it has nothing to do with the idea that they have not kissed, although there is a Facebook group of more than 13,000 people who want that to happen. No, it has more to do with the way in which the producers of Modern Family have constructed this couple along "traditional" tropes of the family.